Telling yourself to be realistic usually seems like the level-headed, grown up, and responsible thing to do. After all, playing make-believe is something that children do. Grown-ups are in the real world, with real problems and in order to function successfully, it makes sense that being realistic about the issues we face in life is the right way to go. Besides, there’s a better chance of succeeding if we stay within realistic boundaries and not dare to think about things that don’t normally happen for everyday people, right?
Um…not so much.
Imagine if a certain young baptist minister who was fighting for equal rights and justice for all people felt that way. Imagine if he thought to himself, “How am I ever going to make a difference? This dream is just too unrealistic. How am I going to get masses of people to see what I can see so clearly? It just seems like too much work. It makes more sense to just be realistic about it and live out my life with my family the best way that I can and hope for the best.”
We all know Martin Luther King did a lot more than just “hope for the best.” He did it because he wasn’t afraid to think outside of what most felt he was capable of, and instead reached deeper inside of himself to tap into what he was actually capable of…which turned out to be creating a dream that would live on long after he was no longer here to see it through.
Living in the “realistic” present vs. living in the “anything is possible” future.
The act of being realistic is actually the act of setting limitations.
For instance, there might be a something you want to do that costs more money than what is in your bank account at the moment. The realistic side of you kicks in and says, “Oh don’t even THINK about that! You know you can’t afford it and you have bills to pay. Be responsible, don’t worry about something that realistically you can’t even do.”
But when you step outside of the barriers of a realistic mindset, the conversation is a bit different:
“I would love to have that (fill in the blank) or travel to (fill in the destination). I might not have the money now, but if I start putting aside a little bit every month, I’ll have the money I need in no time and I can (go anywhere) or (have anything) I want!”
The first conversation was when a person looks at their current circumstances and begins to dictate their life from that perspective. They may tell themselves its more realistic to live in the “here and now” and not get too caught up living with their “head in the clouds” because if they do, things might not get taken care of. But the second conversation allows the person to step outside of the current reality and to begin to imagine what can happen if they refuse to go through life just accepting how things are at the moment.
Realistic thinking only allows you to think in the present tense. Things that are “real” are what is going on in your life at this moment. These are things you have already witnessed, possibly more than a few times, or at least enough that you likely can predict the outcome.
The outcome of circumstances in our lives becomes our own personal realities. These are the things that we’ve come to count on. If I do this…I will get that. It is human nature to stay within our comfort zones, to stick to things we know and not venture too far from the norm, but what happens if we all decide to do that?
Would anything ever change? Would equality ever exist? Would anything new ideas come to the surface? Would there ever be any new inventions? What about technology? Would it ever progress?
Whatever your mind believes to be realistic is what will become.
The evolution that we create or that we witness comes from individuals who were not satisfied with the current reality and decided to go against the grain and try to do what most said could not be done.
Is it unrealistic to believe that a phone would have a full operating system, a camera, a video camera, text-messaging capabilities, video calling, and the ability to view movies and tv shows?
Is it unrealistic that a young woman who grew up in poverty and was only expected to become a maid, was molested by her uncle, had a child out of wedlock that passed away, dealt with weight problems and self-esteem issues, went on to become a billionaire with the #1 talk-show in history, a production company, and her “OWN” network?
Is it unrealistic to explore other planets in the galaxy?
Is it unrealistic that an African American man would win TWO terms of the US Presidency or that a woman would currently be the Presidential nominee?
Rejecting preceived reality and becoming a Deliberate Creator
If Oprah Winfrey, President Barack Obama, and Hillary Clinton only thought from a realistic mindset, none of them would be people who went on to make history.
The beautiful thing about our powerful mind is that it will believe whatever we TELL it to believe. The more we visualize the reality we see in our minds, the stronger the energy becomes that we all naturally create, and the faster the ideas we create in our minds become REALITY.
You might be thinking: Now how exactly does that happen? I don’t have magical powers. That’s not realistic to believe at all!
Well, it actually does work and Oprah, the President, and Hillary are only 3 of the countless examples of what happens when you decide to become a deliberate creator.
When you create deliberately, you are consciously telling your mind what you wish to manifest in your life. You are being very descriptive in your thoughts, on paper, with vision boards, or wherever you are able to see and think about your dream on a regular basis. When you deliberately create, you are making your thoughts turn into reality by the FOCUS you put on them, instead of living life without much deliberate thought and allowing life to happen TO you. (NOTE: This ties in with all of us being vibrational beings, which I will write about in the next blog in more detail, so stay tuned!!)
Simply put: what you think about, focus on, and can conceive as YOUR reality will come to be. This works for EVERY PERSON on this earth. No one person is more equipped to do this than any other. The only factor that sets you apart from those whose lives have proven this to be a guaranteed reality, is your ability to conceive of the reality you desire, and then most importantly, to BELIEVE in it.
So do yourself a HUGE favor. Stop being so realistic about your life, and dare to dream of the endless possibilities that you can create to begin to LIVE, and not just merely exist.